A practical guide for family and professional carers

Helping someone with Alzheimer’s get dressed may seem like a simple task, but over time it becomes one of the most delicate daily challenges. It is not just about clothes: it is about preserving dignity, encouraging remaining independence and making a potentially stressful moment as calm as possible — for your loved one and for you.

Key tips

1. Choose clothes that are easy to put on

Simplicity is the key. The easier a garment is to put on and take off, the less frustration there will be for both of you.

• Opt for elasticated waistbands rather than buttons, zips or belts
• Choose tops with wide necklines and dresses that fasten at the front
• Avoid garments with threads, ribbons or details that might cause confusion
• Velcro shoes are much more practical than laces

2. Prioritise comfort and natural fabrics

As the condition progresses, sensitivity to texture and temperature may change. Physical comfort becomes essential.

• Cotton and linen are your best allies: breathable and soft
• Avoid fabrics that scratch, pinch or irritate the wrists
• Check the inside labels: remove them if they cause irritation
• Always check that seams do not put pressure on the skin

3. Limit choices, but respect personal tastes

Too many options can cause anxiety and confusion. At the same time, maintaining a sense of identity through clothing is valuable to the person.

• Offer a maximum of two options: “Would you like this blue T-shirt or the red one?”
• Keep only seasonal items in the wardrobe
• Where possible, stick to the styles and colours the person has always loved
• Lay out clothes the night before to make mornings easier

4. Encourage remaining independence

Even if the person finds it difficult, letting them take part in getting dressed boosts their dignity and self-esteem. Don’t do for them what they can still do for themselves.

• Start the action yourself and let them finish, if possible
• Use short instructions, one at a time: “Put your arm here”
• Use gestures and demonstrations rather than just words
• Celebrate every little thing they manage to do on their own

5. Choose the right moment

People with Alzheimer’s often have times of the day when they are more alert and cooperative. Understanding these rhythms can make a big difference.

• Avoid dressing the person when they are tired, agitated or hungry
• The morning, after a good rest, is often the best time
• Create a calm environment: fewer distractions, less stress
• Familiar music in the background can help them relax

6. Communication and approach

The way you speak and move profoundly influences the person’s response. Calmness, slowness and gentleness are your most effective tools.

• Always announce what you are about to do before touching them
• Speak in a low, warm and reassuring tone
• If they resist, do not insist: take a break and try again later
• Smile: emotions are conveyed even when words fail

A routine that works

Before you start — Lay out the clothes in the order they will be put on (underwear, socks, trousers, top). Make sure the room is at the right temperature.

Making contact — Say hello, smile, gently touch a hand. Give the person time to settle in and understand who you are before you begin.

Announce the steps — “Now let’s put on the socks”, then wait, then move on to the next step. Avoid overwhelming them with too many instructions at once.

During — If the person shows discomfort, pain or agitation, stop. Assess whether there is a physical issue (joint pain, temperature) or an emotional one.

At the end — A sincere compliment (“You look lovely today!”) can brighten both your days and strengthen your bond.

What to avoid

Don’t scold or correct them harshly. If they’ve put something on the wrong way round or want to wear the same jumper for three days, consider whether it’s really a problem. Sometimes the battle isn’t worth the stress it causes.

Don’t rush things. Haste is the worst enemy in this situation. If time is short, wake the person up earlier or simplify their outfit for the day.

Don’t exclude them from the process. Even if it takes twice as long, involving the person makes them feel respected. Efficiency must not take precedence over dignity.

Don’t neglect yourself. Caring for someone with Alzheimer’s is exhausting. Seek support, share the burden with other family members or professionals, and remember that your well-being matters just as much as that of your loved one.

Every day you manage to make getting dressed a little more peaceful is a small victory. Don’t aim for perfection — aim for connection.

This article is for informational purposes only. For specific situations, always consult your GP or a specialist in neurology or geriatrics.